200 Question BDSM Checklist - Printable Version
This checklist is formatted to print correctly on standard 8-1/2"x11" paper. For personal use only.
Checklists are frequently difficult to complete due to the complex variety to what we enjoy. When we try to fill them out as Tops, Bottoms, Dominants, Submissives, etcetera there is usually confusion over fetishes that aren't physically interactive between partners or over activities that may not clear as to who is giving and who receiving. A sincere effort has been made here to reduce this kind of confusion, but bdsm checklists will never be perfect enough that you won't probably have to go to your partner and confer about how to answer at least one item. Take it as a blessing in disguise - a bdsm checklist is only supposed to get a conversation started. That's what the tool is made for. Remember, it's just a beginning to negotiation, not an end in itself.
Done to/for Self: Read this as how you feel about being on the receiving end of the act.
(As examples, here Whipping would refer to you being whipped, while Massage would mean you're the one on the table.)
Done to/for Others: Read this as how you feel about having someone else receive this act.
(In the examples above, you would be delivering the Whipping, or serving your partner a Massage.)
Tried: Have you tried this? Circle Yes or No for each.
Rating: How does/might this feel to you? Use the chart below as a guide, and circle two answers together if you're "in-between."
/ | Not Applicable | Actions that are physical impossibilities. Draw a slash through the box for these. |
? | Curious | Maybe you're never tried this, or only once, and want to experience more before deciding how much you like it. |
! | Essential | This is something that you can't see yourself enjoying a scene/date/relationship without. |
5 | Love | You love doing whatever it is. |
4 | Like | You like doing whatever it is. |
3 | Don't Mind | You can take this or leave it, but will probably do it for your partner. |
2 | Dislike | You dislike this but will put up with it for your partner. |
1 | Hate | You hate this but will put up with it for your partner. |
× | Soft Limit | Something you cannot attempt at this time but might be possible in the future. |
X | Hard Limit | Something you will not ever attempt. |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Anal Play Acts in which the anus is involved. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating (General) Acts in which one partner is beaten. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Canes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a cane. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Crops Acts in which one partner is beaten with a crop. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Floggers Acts in which one partner is beaten with a flogger. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Hairbrushes Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hairbrush. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Hard Acts in which one partner is beaten hard. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Paddles Acts in which one partner is beaten with a paddle. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Soft Acts in which one partner is beaten softly. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Spanking Acts in which one partner is beaten with a hand. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Straps Acts in which one partner is beaten with a strap. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating - Whips Acts in which one partner is beaten with a whip. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating Location - Back Beating based acts that focus on the back as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating Location - Bottom Beating based acts that focus on the bottom as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Beating Location - Chest Beating based acts that focus on the chest or breasts as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating Location - Feet Beating based acts that focus on the feet (usually the soles) as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating Location - Genitals Beating based acts that focus on the genitals as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Beating Location - Legs Beating based acts that focus on the legs as a target. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bestiality Sex with animals. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Biting Acts involving biting one partner with the teeth of the other. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Blindfolds Acts in which blindfolds are placed over one partner's eyes to remove that sense (and often heighten others). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Branding Burning the body, often with a specific design, to leave a permanent mark or scar. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Piercing, Permanent Putting an object through a part of the body for permanent adornment. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Piercing, Play Exploring the concept of body piercing but in a manner that is temporary. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Saline Injection Injecting saline in to a part of the body to temporarily engorge it. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Scarification Deliberately causing scars, often through cutting the skin, for adornment. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Body Modification - Tattooing Adorning the body by permanently applying ink under the skin. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage (General) Binding or restricting some or all of the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Bondage - Breast Binding or restricting the breasts. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Cuffs Binding or restricting the body (usually the wrists) with [hand]cuffs. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Genital Binding or restricting the genitals. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Heavy Heavily binding or restricting the body, usually to the point where no, or next-to no, movement is possible. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Intricate Intricately binding or restricting some or all of the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Light Lightly binding or restricting the body. Usually more symbolic than actually restrictive. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Locks Bondage that involves locks and keys. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Prolonged Binding or restricting some or all of the body for prolonged periods of time. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Sleeves, Arm Restricting the movement of the arms by placing them in a confining sleeve. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Sleeves, Leg Restricting the movement of the legs by placing them in a confining sleeve. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Spreader Bars Restricting the movement of the legs by connecting them to either end of a bar, usually forcing them open. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Stocks Restricing movement by placing the wrists and neck (though may involve ankles) through a set of stocks. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Strait Jackets Binding or restricting the torso and arms by placing them inside a straight jacket. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Bondage - Suspension Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Suspension, Inverted Binding or restricting someone so they are suspended above the ground, upside-down. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage - Whole Body Binding or restricting the whole body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Chain Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with chain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Leather Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with leather. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Rope Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with rope. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Saran Wrap Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with saran wrap (clingfilm). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Scarves Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually silk] scarves. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Bondage Material - Tape Binding or restricting the body, or parts of, with [usually adhesive] tape. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Breath Play Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving restricting or cutting off the supply of oxygen. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Catheters Inserting a tube in to the urethra to collect urine. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothespins Using clothespins to pinch parts of the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Chosen For Having your clothing choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Corsets Wearing corsets which control the shape of the waist and hips. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Clothing - Full Head Hoods Wearing hoods that cover the entire head, leaving only small holes for vision, breathing, etc. (if even them). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Harnesses Wearing clothing that harnesses the body without necessarily covering it. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - High Heels Wearing high-heeled shoes. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Lingerie Wearing women's lingerie. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Masks Wearing masks that cover the face. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Uniforms (General) Wearing uniforms that have a given significance. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Uniforms, Military Wearing military uniforms. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing - Uniforms, School Wearing schoolgirl/schoolboy uniforms. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing Material - Leather Clothing made out of, or involving, leather. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing Material - PVC Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC (the shiny plasticy material). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing Material - Rubber Clothing made out of, or involving, rubber or latex. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Clothing Material - Sheer Clothing made out of, or involving, sheer (transparent or translucent) material. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Collars - Private Wearing a "slave" collar in private. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Collars - Public Wearing a "slave" collar in public. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Crawling The act of crawling on all fours to denote submission. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Cutting Deliberately cutting the skin. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Dilation - Anal Deliberately stretching the anus open. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Dilation - Vaginal Deliberately stretching the vagina open. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Discipline Submitting to, or receiving, the [often corporal] discipline of another. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Drinking - Blood Drinking blood. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Drinking - Semen Drinking semen. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Drinking - Urine Drinking urine. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Electricity Using electricity for sensation or pain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Enemas Applying liquid (traditionally warm water) in to the lower intestine, via a tube. Often to induce uncontrolled, or hard to control, excretion. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Examination - Physical Having your body physically examined and, often, appraised. Sometimes this includes medical examination roleplays though, here, that is listed as Roleplay - Medical. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Exhibitionism - Forced Exposing your body to others, nominally against your will, at the will of another. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Exhibitionism - Voluntary Willingly exposing your body to others. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Face Slapping Slapping the face, usually with an open hand, to cause pain or denote position. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Fisting - Anal Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the anus. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Fisting - Vaginal Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is often an exageration) inside the vagina. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Food - Chosen For Having your food choices made for you, usually without the ability to appeal. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Food - From Body Eating food from another person's body. Either eating it directly from them or using them as a platter. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Food - From Bowl Eating food directly from a bowl, like an animal such as a cat or dog. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Food - From Hand Eating food directly from another person's hand. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Gags (General) Devices used to limit, or prevent, verbal communication. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Gags - Ball A type of gag that uses a ball to effectively block any verbal communication. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Gags - Bit A type of gag that uses a bar that goes across the mouth, much like a horse's "bit". | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Gags - Ring A type of gag that uses a ring to force the mouth open while providing access to the, now undefendable, mouth. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Gags - Tape Using adhesive tape across the mouth to create a gag. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Given Away (General) Being given, at a partner's whim, to another person, usually temporarily. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Given Away - Auctions Being given to another person as the result of a [slave] auction. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Given Away - Permanent Being given away, at a partner's whim, to another person, permanently. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Hand Jobs Pleasuring someone else's genitals with your hand. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Heterosexuality - Forced Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, nominally against your will. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Heterosexuality - Voluntary Sexual acts with members of the opposite sex, willingly. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Homosexuality - Forced Sexual acts with members of the same sex, nominally against your will. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Homosexuality - Voluntary Sexual acts with members of the same sex, willingly. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Humiliation - Private Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in a private setting. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Humiliation - Public Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, in front of others. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Humiliation - Verbal Acts in which you are humiliated, degrated, or shamed, through either the words of someone else (such as name calling) or your own words. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Including Others Acts in which other people, from outside your immediate relationship, are included. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Kneeling The act of kneeling to denote submission. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Leashes Wearing a leash, attached to a collar (or other convenient point). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Lecturing An exposition of a given subject for the purpose of instruction or reprimand. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Licking Using your tongue on another person's body [or, often, anything they require]. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Massage Rubbing another person's body for their relaxation. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Masturbation - Forced Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, nominally against your will. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Masturbation - Voluntary Pleasuring your own genitals, with your hand, willingly. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Nipple Clamps Placing clamps on the nipples to cause pain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Nipple Play Acts that focus on the nipples. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Nipple Weights Applying weights to the nipples to stretch them, generally to cause pain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Nudity - Forced Periods of time spent without clothing, nominally against you will. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Nudity - Voluntary Periods of time spent without clothing. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Orgasm - On Command Having to orgasm on the command of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Orgasm Control Giving control of when and how orgasms are experienced - and when they are not - to another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Orgasm Denial Losing the right to have orgasms for an [often protracted] period of time. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Pain (General) Acts involving physical pain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Pain - Heavy Acts involving a very large degree of physical pain. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Pain - Light Acts involving some physical pain, yet without too great an intensity - being more symbolic than serious. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Phone Sex Having sexually explicit phone conversations, usually involving performing sexual acts at the same time. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Rape - Fantasy Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Rape - Fantasy, Gang Acts that explore being sexually used, nominally against your will, by more than one other person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Private Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Recorded Scenes - Photographs, Shared Having photographs taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Recorded Scenes - Video, Private Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, for private viewing only. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Recorded Scenes - Video, Shared Having video taken of you, either naked or indulging in a sexual act, to be shared with others. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay (General) Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Age Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on being a different age (such as babies or naughty young girls). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Education Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on a scholastic teacher/student setting. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Interrogation Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on interrogations where one person is the interrogator and the other the subject. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Roleplay - Kidnapping Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on one partner being kidnapped. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Medical Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles such as Doctor/Patient. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Pig Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pig. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Pony Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a pony. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Prison Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the prison world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable Inmate | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Puppy Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a puppy or adult dog. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Religious Scenes in which the participants take on and act out roles based on the religious world such as confessionals or Bishop/Nun. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Roleplay - Whore Scenes in which the subject takes on and acts out a role based on being a male or female prostitute, selling themselves to another person for sex. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play (General) Acts involving the senses and strong sensations. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Deprivation Acts involving depriving the subject of their senses (often to heighten the remaining ones). | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Fire Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by fire and heat. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Hair Pulling Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hair pulled. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Sensation Play - Hot Wax Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having hot candle wax dripped on to or applied to the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Ice Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using ice or other cold items on the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Needle Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using needles on the body, either scratching with them, or poking them. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Scratching Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by being scratched. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Suction Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by having suction applied to the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Teasing Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by teasing the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sensation Play - Tickling Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by tickling the body. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving (General) Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own. For example, a maid or a sexual servant. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Art Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a (usually immobile) piece of artwork such as a statue. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Ashtray Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, using a part of your body as a receptacle for their cigarette or cigar ash. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Chauffer Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as their formal driver. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Serving - Dancer Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a dancer. For example, a belly dancer or stripper. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Following Orders Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as they give you specific formal orders to follow. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Forced Serving another person in specific ways, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, nominally forced against your will. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Furniture Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as an immobile piece of furniture. For example, on all fours as a table or a footstool. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Housework Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, performing household chores. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Maid Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid. For example, serving tea while wearing a uniform. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Serving - Sexually Serving another person, putting their pleasure ahead of your own, in whatever sexual way pleases them. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Anal Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your anus. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Cunnilingus Sexually stimulating the vagina with a mouth/tongue. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Denial Going without sex, or sexual gratification, often at another person's command. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Fellatio Sexually stimulating the penis with a mouth/tongue. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Group Sexual intercourse with more than one partner. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Sex - Penetration, Double Sexual intercourse in which two orrifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Penetration, Triple Sexual intercourse in which three orrifices (mouth, vagina, anus) are filled. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Rimming Sexually stimulating the anus with a mouth/tongue. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Threesome Sexual intercourse with two other people. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Vaginal Sexual intercourse involving a penis entering your vagina. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex - Vanilla Traditional sexual intercourse, without involving any kinks. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Beads Having a string of connected beads (or balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina and then pulled out. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Butt Plugs Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Dildos Using and/or being penetrated with a non-vibrating artificial phallus. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Eggs Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls, Love Eggs, etc. Two balls made to be vaginally inserted which vibrate when you move or are battery powered to vibrate. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Public (Under Clothes) Going out in public with a sex toy (such as a butt plug) in your body, under your clothing. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Strap On Using and/or being penetrated with an artificial phallus that fastens about a partner's waist. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Sex Toys - Vibrators Using and/or being penetrated with a vibrating toy, usually an artificial phallus. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Shaving - Body Removing all traces of hair below the neck. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Shaving - Genital Removing all traces of hair from the genitals. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Shaving - Genital, Styling Shaving or trimming pubic hair, removing some but not all of it in a given style. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Shaving - Head Removing all traces of hair from the head. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Showers - Brown Defecating on another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Showers - Golden Urinating on another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Speculums - Anal Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the anus, providing access within. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Speculums - Vaginal Using a medical tool to dilate (stretch open) the entrance to the vagina, providing access within. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Swapping (Partner) Sex between two or more couples where members of each couple exchange partners and have sex with them. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Voyeurism Watching someone, often without their knowledge, in a situation with sexual connotations. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Worship - Boot Worshiping the boots of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Worship - Bottom Worshiping the bottom of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Worship - Breast Worshiping the breasts of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Activity | To/For Self | To/For Others | ||
Done | Rate | Done | Rate | |
Worship - Foot Worshiping the feet of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Worship - Genital Worshiping the genitals of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Worship - High Heel Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of another person. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
Wrestling Wrestling with another person, overpowering them or being overpowered. | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit | Yes No | Essential Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Soft Limit Hard Limit |
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